Posts Tagged ‘
low self esteem ’
Oct 12th, 2010 |
By Patty Hite |
Category: All Posts, Patty's Blog
by Patty Hite Writing was easy for me. My mother encouraged me to write. When I was a young child, I remember shopping with her, looking for perfect pieces of stationary. Money was tight so I cherished each piece. I cut up used birthday and holiday cards to make my own books to write in. [...]
Tags: belief system, childhood sexual abuse, coping mechanisms, healing sexual abuse, low self esteem, overcoming sexual abuse, Patty Hite, recovery, self help, sexual abuse recovery, support, survivor of abuse, truth, writing Posted in All Posts, Patty's Blog |
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Sep 20th, 2010 |
By Guest Contributions |
Category: All Posts, Guest Blog
by Nikki Stone “I use to think that keeping up with my appearances mattered. However, I have seen what age does to the body and quiet frankly I can’t run fast enough to keep up with such appearances. So I have settled to frighten myself every morning when I get up to look in the [...]
Tags: acceptance, belief system, bipolar disorder, child abuse, coping mechanisms, emotional healing, empowerment, healing brokenness, healing from sexual abuse, healing journey, inner struggle, laughter is the best medicine, low self esteem, mental health, Nikki Stone, overcoming sexual abuse, significance, truth, victim Posted in All Posts, Guest Blog |
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Sep 13th, 2010 |
By osa |
Category: All Posts, Truth Talks--10 Minute Audio
by Christina Enevoldsen & Bethany Ruck Childhood sexual abuse often leaves the survivor vulnerable to more abuse and afraid of being victimized again. In this ten minute audio discussion, Christina Enevoldsen and Bethany Ruck share how they turn their violations in adulthood into tools for healing. “I had the belief that if I defended myself, [...]
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Tags: belief system, Bethany Ruck, boundaries, childhood sexual abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, comfort zone, fear, healing sexual abuse, low self esteem, overcoming sexual abuse, personal growth, personal power, rape, self-protection, survivor of abuse, victim, violation Posted in All Posts, Truth Talks--10 Minute Audio |
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Sep 2nd, 2010 |
By Patty Hite |
Category: All Posts, Patty's Blog
by Patty Hite My son used to sing a Bob Marley song to me all the time and the chorus was, “Is this love, is this love, is this love, is this love that I’m feeling?” I never gave it much thought until recently, but wondered why I never asked myself, “Is this love that [...]
Tags: abuser, abusive marriage, abusive relationship, dysfunctional family, false love, healing from abuse, healing journey, healthy relationships, love, low self esteem, marriage, overcoming sexual abuse, Patty Hite, self respect, self-esteem, self-love Posted in All Posts, Patty's Blog |
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Aug 17th, 2010 |
By osa |
Category: All Posts, Truth Talks--10 Minute Audio
by Christina Enevoldsen & Darlene Ouimet Abuse misinforms us about our identity and our value. Recovery is the restoration of our true selves. Find out how we uncover the truth in this ten minute audio discussion by Christina Enevoldsen and Darlene Ouimet. “I became my own advocate and I believe that’s the only way we [...]
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Tags: belief system, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, coping mechanisms, Darlene Ouimet, dissociative identity disorder, dysfunctional family, emotional healing, false identity, healing brokenness, healing sexual abuse, low self esteem, mental health, multiple personalities, overcoming abuse, parenting, recovery process, self help, self-worth, sexual abuse, significance, truth, validation, verbal abuse Posted in All Posts, Truth Talks--10 Minute Audio |
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Aug 8th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen When I was a child, I was very well-behaved. I listened to my teachers and earned good grades. I got along well with other kids and followed all the rules. I obeyed my parents and did helpful things around the house. I never got in trouble except for one thing: My parents [...]
Tags: abusive marriage, acceptance, attitude, belief system, boundaries, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, coping mechanisms, denial, dysfunctional family, emotional pain, emotional scars, empowerment, facade, false identity, family systems, family values, healing brokenness, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, hidden message, incest, inner struggle, low self esteem, masks, mental health, overcoming abuse, parenting, people pleasing, performance, positive thinking, secrets, sexual abuse, shame, support, survivor of abuse, validation, victim Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Jul 29th, 2010 |
By osa |
Category: All Posts, Diablog--Multi-Person Blog
By Christina Enevoldsen, Bethany Ruck & Penny Smith I live close to Beverly Hills, the plastic surgery Mecca, where the question is, “Are they real?” I’m also a few blocks from where the Academy Awards and many film premieres are held, where celebrities smile for the cameras and wave confidently to the fans, yet we [...]
Tags: belief system, Bethany Ruck, boudaries, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, comfort zone, control, coping mechanisms, dissociate, emotional scars, empowerment, facade, false identity, feeling alone, fulfilling life, healing sexual abuse, healing trauma, inner struggle, low self esteem, masks, mental health, overcoming sexual abuse, panic, Penny Smith, personal growth, personal power, recovery, role playing, self-worth, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, shame, survival mode, truth, validation, victim, violation, worry Posted in All Posts, Diablog--Multi-Person Blog |
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Jul 27th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen When I was a kid, The Wizard of OZ aired on television once a year. I didn’t know any families who didn’t anticipate this event. My family never missed it. We’d eat dinner early, make popcorn and enthusiastically settle in. The Wizard of Oz is an enchanting story of a twelve-year-old Kansas [...]
Tags: abusers, acceptance, anger, belief system, boundaries, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, control, coping mechanisms, denial, dyfunctional family, emotional healing, emotional scars, empowerment, false identity, family system, fulfilling life, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, healthy relationships, incest, inner struggle, intimidation, low self esteem, mental health, overcoming sexual abuse, parenting, people pleaser, personal development, personal power, personal responsibility, recovery, self help, self-worth, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, survivor, truth, validation, victim, violation, Wizard of Oz Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Jul 26th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen In the dark children’s tale “Hansel and Gretal”, a young brother and sister are abandoned in the woods by their father at the insistence of their step-mother. She convinces her husband that the whole family will perish unless they reduce the number of bellies to feed. Lost and starving, the children find [...]
Tags: abandonment, abuser, abusive relationship, acceptance, belief system, belonging, betrayal, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, control, dependence, discernment, dysfunctional family, emotional healing, emotional pain, empowerment, expert, facade, false promises, father child relationship, feeling alone, feeling used, Hansel and Gretal, healing brokenness, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, hero, individuality, insecurities, low self esteem, manipulation, mental health, mother daughter relationship, mother's love, neglect, overcoming abuse, overcoming sexual abuse, pain relief, parenting, people pleaser, performance, personal growth, personal power, potential, sexual abuse recovery, significance, submission, trust issues, validation, victim, withholding love Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Jul 25th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen It was the first time in weeks since my husband and I had been on a date. Don held my hand and I rested my head on his chest while we waited in line for the planetarium show at Griffith Observatory. The young couple a few feet in front of us caught [...]
Tags: abuse, abusive marriage, abusive relationship, anger, boundaries, Christina Enevoldsen, competition, control, coping mechanisms, denial, discernment, domination, emotional pain, emotional scars, empowerment, equality, fear, healing brokenness, healing sexual abuse, healthy relationship, husband, intimidation, low self esteem, manipulation, mutual respect, overcoming abuser, overcoming sexual abuse, people pleaser, performance, personal power, personal safety, physical abuse, poor self esteem, power, recovery, self help, self-worth, sexual abuse recovery, shame, survival mode, survivor of abuse, teasing, trust issues, truth, validation, verbal abuse, victim, violation, vulnerable, wife Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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