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Oct 26th, 2010 |
By Bethany Ruck |
Category: All Posts, Bethany's Blog
by Bethany Ruck Birthdays usually mean surprises. I remember one particular birthday en route to our destination I was lead into a dark room and without warning, all of my closest friends popped out shouting my praises. I was so taken aback. Immediately my defenses went up. This should have been a happy moment, but [...]
Tags: abuser, belief system, Bethany Ruck, boundaries, child abuse, coping mechanisms, emotional healing, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, healing trauma, incest, mental health, overcoming sexual abuse, personal growth, personal power, recovery, self help, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, support, survival mode, survivor, survivor of abuse, truth, victim Posted in All Posts, Bethany's Blog |
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Oct 23rd, 2010 |
By Patty Hite |
Category: All Posts, Patty's Blog
by Patty Hite I took my bulldog Molly to the vet because she was getting skin blisters all over her body. The vet and I have been omitting different things from her in order to see what is causing this. When she has a breakout, she gets a shot and then she’s put on pills [...]
Tags: belief system, boundaries, child abuse, dysfunctional family, emotional healing, empowerment, healing sexual abuse, overcoming sexual abuse, Patty Hite, sexual abuse recovery Posted in All Posts, Patty's Blog |
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Oct 14th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen For years, I didn’t realize how fragmented I felt and or how disjointed my life was. When I began to see the truth of my childhood sexual abuse, my world started to crumble. My personal history and the family I thought I had was an illusion; they only existed in my mind. [...]
Tags: Christina Enevoldsen, denial, dysfunctional family, emotional healing, empowerment, healing sexual abuse, overcoming sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, truth, validation Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Oct 12th, 2010 |
By Patty Hite |
Category: All Posts, Patty's Blog
by Patty Hite Writing was easy for me. My mother encouraged me to write. When I was a young child, I remember shopping with her, looking for perfect pieces of stationary. Money was tight so I cherished each piece. I cut up used birthday and holiday cards to make my own books to write in. [...]
Tags: belief system, childhood sexual abuse, coping mechanisms, healing sexual abuse, low self esteem, overcoming sexual abuse, Patty Hite, recovery, self help, sexual abuse recovery, support, survivor of abuse, truth, writing Posted in All Posts, Patty's Blog |
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Oct 6th, 2010 |
By Guest Contributions |
Category: All Posts, Guest Blog
by Libbe HaLevy My abuse began when I was very young, pre-verbal. I repressed my earliest abuse in total amnesia, not even suspecting anything had happened. But from about age three, I became obsessed with words, language, meaning. Even before I knew how to put letters and words on paper, my imagination took situations around [...]
Tags: dissociate, emotional healing, empowerment, healing sexual abuse, Libbe HaLevy, overcoming sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, writing, writing stories Posted in All Posts, Guest Blog |
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Sep 30th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen “In every block of marble I see a statue as plain as though it stood before me, shaped and perfect in attitude and action. I have only to hew away the rough walls that imprison the lovely apparition to reveal it to the other eyes as mine see it.” Michelangelo It’s completely [...]
Tags: belief system, Christina Enevoldsen, emotional healing, false identity, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, healing trauma, overcoming sexual abuse, self image, sexual abuse recovery, shame, truth Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Jul 29th, 2010 |
By osa |
Category: All Posts, Diablog--Multi-Person Blog
By Christina Enevoldsen, Bethany Ruck & Penny Smith I live close to Beverly Hills, the plastic surgery Mecca, where the question is, “Are they real?” I’m also a few blocks from where the Academy Awards and many film premieres are held, where celebrities smile for the cameras and wave confidently to the fans, yet we [...]
Tags: belief system, Bethany Ruck, boudaries, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, comfort zone, control, coping mechanisms, dissociate, emotional scars, empowerment, facade, false identity, feeling alone, fulfilling life, healing sexual abuse, healing trauma, inner struggle, low self esteem, masks, mental health, overcoming sexual abuse, panic, Penny Smith, personal growth, personal power, recovery, role playing, self-worth, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, shame, survival mode, truth, validation, victim, violation, worry Posted in All Posts, Diablog--Multi-Person Blog |
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Jul 27th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen When I was a kid, The Wizard of OZ aired on television once a year. I didn’t know any families who didn’t anticipate this event. My family never missed it. We’d eat dinner early, make popcorn and enthusiastically settle in. The Wizard of Oz is an enchanting story of a twelve-year-old Kansas [...]
Tags: abusers, acceptance, anger, belief system, boundaries, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, control, coping mechanisms, denial, dyfunctional family, emotional healing, emotional scars, empowerment, false identity, family system, fulfilling life, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, healthy relationships, incest, inner struggle, intimidation, low self esteem, mental health, overcoming sexual abuse, parenting, people pleaser, personal development, personal power, personal responsibility, recovery, self help, self-worth, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, survivor, truth, validation, victim, violation, Wizard of Oz Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Jul 26th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen In the dark children’s tale “Hansel and Gretal”, a young brother and sister are abandoned in the woods by their father at the insistence of their step-mother. She convinces her husband that the whole family will perish unless they reduce the number of bellies to feed. Lost and starving, the children find [...]
Tags: abandonment, abuser, abusive relationship, acceptance, belief system, belonging, betrayal, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, control, dependence, discernment, dysfunctional family, emotional healing, emotional pain, empowerment, expert, facade, false promises, father child relationship, feeling alone, feeling used, Hansel and Gretal, healing brokenness, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, hero, individuality, insecurities, low self esteem, manipulation, mental health, mother daughter relationship, mother's love, neglect, overcoming abuse, overcoming sexual abuse, pain relief, parenting, people pleaser, performance, personal growth, personal power, potential, sexual abuse recovery, significance, submission, trust issues, validation, victim, withholding love Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Jul 25th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen It was the first time in weeks since my husband and I had been on a date. Don held my hand and I rested my head on his chest while we waited in line for the planetarium show at Griffith Observatory. The young couple a few feet in front of us caught [...]
Tags: abuse, abusive marriage, abusive relationship, anger, boundaries, Christina Enevoldsen, competition, control, coping mechanisms, denial, discernment, domination, emotional pain, emotional scars, empowerment, equality, fear, healing brokenness, healing sexual abuse, healthy relationship, husband, intimidation, low self esteem, manipulation, mutual respect, overcoming abuser, overcoming sexual abuse, people pleaser, performance, personal power, personal safety, physical abuse, poor self esteem, power, recovery, self help, self-worth, sexual abuse recovery, shame, survival mode, survivor of abuse, teasing, trust issues, truth, validation, verbal abuse, victim, violation, vulnerable, wife Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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