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Jul 26th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen In the dark children’s tale “Hansel and Gretal”, a young brother and sister are abandoned in the woods by their father at the insistence of their step-mother. She convinces her husband that the whole family will perish unless they reduce the number of bellies to feed. Lost and starving, the children find [...]
Tags: abandonment, abuser, abusive relationship, acceptance, belief system, belonging, betrayal, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, control, dependence, discernment, dysfunctional family, emotional healing, emotional pain, empowerment, expert, facade, false promises, father child relationship, feeling alone, feeling used, Hansel and Gretal, healing brokenness, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, hero, individuality, insecurities, low self esteem, manipulation, mental health, mother daughter relationship, mother's love, neglect, overcoming abuse, overcoming sexual abuse, pain relief, parenting, people pleaser, performance, personal growth, personal power, potential, sexual abuse recovery, significance, submission, trust issues, validation, victim, withholding love Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Jul 25th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen It was the first time in weeks since my husband and I had been on a date. Don held my hand and I rested my head on his chest while we waited in line for the planetarium show at Griffith Observatory. The young couple a few feet in front of us caught [...]
Tags: abuse, abusive marriage, abusive relationship, anger, boundaries, Christina Enevoldsen, competition, control, coping mechanisms, denial, discernment, domination, emotional pain, emotional scars, empowerment, equality, fear, healing brokenness, healing sexual abuse, healthy relationship, husband, intimidation, low self esteem, manipulation, mutual respect, overcoming abuser, overcoming sexual abuse, people pleaser, performance, personal power, personal safety, physical abuse, poor self esteem, power, recovery, self help, self-worth, sexual abuse recovery, shame, survival mode, survivor of abuse, teasing, trust issues, truth, validation, verbal abuse, victim, violation, vulnerable, wife Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Apr 29th, 2010 |
By Bethany Ruck |
Category: All Posts, Bethany's Blog
by Bethany Ruck There I was, twenty-four years old and I’d never had a vaginal exam. I don’t like being touched in the first place, let alone being poked and prodded in my sacred areas. I had avoided the pap smear for years. Going to the doctor should be simple, right? I mean, all I [...]
Tags: anxiety, Bethany Ruck, child abuse, children, comfort zone, doctor, emotinal healing, emotional scars, empowerment, exam, facing fears, fear, healing sexual abuse, inner struggle, neglect healing trauma, ob/gyn, overcoming sexual abuse, personal power, personal space, recovery, self help, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, trust issues, worry Posted in All Posts, Bethany's Blog |
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Apr 19th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
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by Christina Enevoldsen Does time heals all wounds? I’ve heard many survivors of abuse try to soothe themselves by saying, “Soon, this will pass.” It does take time to heal—and lots of it. But time alone won’t repair the soul mutilation of abuse anymore than it will repair the destruction caused by an earthquake. Sexual [...]
Tags: abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, coping mechanisms, denial, emotional healing, emotional pain, empowerment, fear, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, healing trauma, incest, inner struggle, low self esteem, personal development, personal power, self help, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, shame, significance, support, support group, survival mode, survivor, therapy, trust issues, validation, victim, violation, worry Posted in All Posts, Articles |
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