by Christina Enevoldsen The sun was falling behind the trees, the wind was gusting and the child desperately sought refuge, though not from the elements. The same man who had hurt her before in ways she couldn’t understand was getting
"Her book explains confusing emotions in a clear and concise way that would normally take years of painful and slow therapeutic work to unravel. Her steps are like a brightly lit path out of darkness untangling confusing emotions while leading you quickly through to self discovery and healing."
"... savoring every bit of it as it reveals more and more of the feelings I've had for a long time...The questions at the end of the chapters help me to put into words the feelings I've never been able to share with anyone."
"This is an excellent book and workbook...Difficult concepts related to healing were clearly explained. The topics and questions are comprehensive and relevant...As someone who now works with others who have been abused I use this book to assist in their healing."
In my head, I realize that we live in a world that is full of chaotic events and that good people are killed or treated unjustly every day. I don’t believe that when someone is a victim of a tragedy, it means they did something to deserve it. But a child believes everything is personal. To gain some sense of order, when something bad happens to a child, it’s because he or she did something to cause it. Even into adulthood, I was still operating from that child-like belief. When something bad happened to me, I believed it was because I was bad. ”