"Her book explains confusing emotions in a clear and concise way that would normally take years of painful and slow therapeutic work to unravel. Her steps are like a brightly lit path out of darkness untangling confusing emotions while leading you quickly through to self discovery and healing."
"... savoring every bit of it as it reveals more and more of the feelings I've had for a long time...The questions at the end of the chapters help me to put into words the feelings I've never been able to share with anyone."
"This is an excellent book and workbook...Difficult concepts related to healing were clearly explained. The topics and questions are comprehensive and relevant...As someone who now works with others who have been abused I use this book to assist in their healing."
I used to be so desperate for love and acceptance that I didn’t ask myself how I felt about someone who seemed to want me. I thought it was such an honor to have attention from someone. Now, I don’t discount my feelings out of the 'honor' of being 'chosen'. If someone gives me attention, I don’t owe them anything. I’m valuable because I exist, not because of their acceptance. ”