Posts Tagged ‘
inner struggle ’
Sep 25th, 2011 |
By Bethany Ruck |
Category: All Posts, Bethany's Blog
by Bethany Ruck I grew up watching Disney movies, dreaming that one day I could be the heroine of the story or wed a handsome prince. I yearned to live out an epic romance, where I would be swept off my feet by a loving man. I wanted a guy to see me and think, [...]
Tags: Bethany Ruck, childhood sexual abuse, coping mechanisms, dating, denial, empowerment, false identity, healing sexual abuse, identity, inner struggle, overcoming sexual abuse, personal growth, self help, sexual abuse recovery, truth Posted in All Posts, Bethany's Blog |
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Nov 10th, 2010 |
By Bethany Ruck |
Category: All Posts, Bethany's Blog
by Bethany Ruck When my last boyfriend and I began dating, we would see each other once a week. The in between times were filled with hour-long telephone calls before bed, a lot of getting to know you time and even more of the sickening, “No, I miss you more” fluff. One night the conversation [...]
Tags: abuser, belief system, Bethany Ruck, child abuse, childhood sexual abuse, dating, denial, emotional healing, emotional pain, emotional scars, empowerment, fear, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, healing trauma, incest, inner struggle, overcoming sexual abuse, personal growth, recovery, relationships, self help, self-worth, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, shame, support, survivor, survivor of abuse, truth, victim, violation Posted in All Posts, Bethany's Blog |
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Sep 20th, 2010 |
By Guest Contributions |
Category: All Posts, Guest Blog
by Nikki Stone “I use to think that keeping up with my appearances mattered. However, I have seen what age does to the body and quiet frankly I can’t run fast enough to keep up with such appearances. So I have settled to frighten myself every morning when I get up to look in the [...]
Tags: acceptance, belief system, bipolar disorder, child abuse, coping mechanisms, emotional healing, empowerment, healing brokenness, healing from sexual abuse, healing journey, inner struggle, laughter is the best medicine, low self esteem, mental health, Nikki Stone, overcoming sexual abuse, significance, truth, victim Posted in All Posts, Guest Blog |
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Aug 15th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen I could never take a vacation for more than four days. I didn’t understand how people could be happy just “wasting time” or how they could prefer fun and games over tangible results. Hard work was my fun. It was frustrating when my son and daughter were young and I tried to [...]
Tags: acceptance, belonging, brokenness, childhood sexual abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, coping mechanisms, healing trauma, inner child, inner struggle, overcoming abuse, parenting, performance, recovery, self image, self improvement, self-worth, sexual abuse, significance, survivor of abuse, truth, validation, verbal abuse Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Aug 8th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen When I was a child, I was very well-behaved. I listened to my teachers and earned good grades. I got along well with other kids and followed all the rules. I obeyed my parents and did helpful things around the house. I never got in trouble except for one thing: My parents [...]
Tags: abusive marriage, acceptance, attitude, belief system, boundaries, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, coping mechanisms, denial, dysfunctional family, emotional pain, emotional scars, empowerment, facade, false identity, family systems, family values, healing brokenness, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, hidden message, incest, inner struggle, low self esteem, masks, mental health, overcoming abuse, parenting, people pleasing, performance, positive thinking, secrets, sexual abuse, shame, support, survivor of abuse, validation, victim Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Jul 29th, 2010 |
By osa |
Category: All Posts, Diablog--Multi-Person Blog
By Christina Enevoldsen, Bethany Ruck & Penny Smith I live close to Beverly Hills, the plastic surgery Mecca, where the question is, “Are they real?” I’m also a few blocks from where the Academy Awards and many film premieres are held, where celebrities smile for the cameras and wave confidently to the fans, yet we [...]
Tags: belief system, Bethany Ruck, boudaries, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, comfort zone, control, coping mechanisms, dissociate, emotional scars, empowerment, facade, false identity, feeling alone, fulfilling life, healing sexual abuse, healing trauma, inner struggle, low self esteem, masks, mental health, overcoming sexual abuse, panic, Penny Smith, personal growth, personal power, recovery, role playing, self-worth, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, shame, survival mode, truth, validation, victim, violation, worry Posted in All Posts, Diablog--Multi-Person Blog |
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Jul 27th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen When I was a kid, The Wizard of OZ aired on television once a year. I didn’t know any families who didn’t anticipate this event. My family never missed it. We’d eat dinner early, make popcorn and enthusiastically settle in. The Wizard of Oz is an enchanting story of a twelve-year-old Kansas [...]
Tags: abusers, acceptance, anger, belief system, boundaries, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, control, coping mechanisms, denial, dyfunctional family, emotional healing, emotional scars, empowerment, false identity, family system, fulfilling life, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, healthy relationships, incest, inner struggle, intimidation, low self esteem, mental health, overcoming sexual abuse, parenting, people pleaser, personal development, personal power, personal responsibility, recovery, self help, self-worth, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, survivor, truth, validation, victim, violation, Wizard of Oz Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Jun 3rd, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen “Steve Austin, astronaut. A man barely alive. Gentlemen, we can rebuild him. We have the technology. We have the capability to build the world’s first bionic man. Steve Austin will be that man. Better than he was before. Better, stronger, faster.” Oscar Goldman in the opening narration to the “The Six Million [...]
Tags: child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, emotional healing, emotional pain, emotional scars, empowerment, healilng from trauma, healing from abuse, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, incest, inner struggle, mental health, near death experience, overcoming abuse, overcoming sexual abuse, pain relief, personal development, personal growth, personal power, restoration, self help, self image, self improvement, self-worth, sexual abuse recovery, significance, suffering, survivor of abuse, therapy, validation, victim, violation Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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May 9th, 2010 |
By Patty Hite |
Category: All Posts, Patty's Blog
by Patty Hite Windows and doors, set. Beep Beep, Beep Beep. Motion detectors, set. Beep Beep, Beep Beep. Alarms set. Beep Beep. Beep Beep. My husband had an alarm system put into our home and I have to say, it helps me feel safe. He is ill and getting weaker and his thoughts were for [...]
Tags: abuser, abusive relationship, anxiety, boundaries, child abuse, coping mechanisms, emotional healing, emotional scars, empowerment, fear, healing sexual abuse, healing trauma, hero, inner struggle, overcoming sexual abuse, Patty Hite, personal alarm, personal growth, personal power, personal safety, physical abuse, protection, rape, reporting abuse, self help, self improvement, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, significance, survivor of abuse, validation, worry Posted in All Posts, Patty's Blog |
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Apr 29th, 2010 |
By Bethany Ruck |
Category: All Posts, Bethany's Blog
by Bethany Ruck There I was, twenty-four years old and I’d never had a vaginal exam. I don’t like being touched in the first place, let alone being poked and prodded in my sacred areas. I had avoided the pap smear for years. Going to the doctor should be simple, right? I mean, all I [...]
Tags: anxiety, Bethany Ruck, child abuse, children, comfort zone, doctor, emotinal healing, emotional scars, empowerment, exam, facing fears, fear, healing sexual abuse, inner struggle, neglect healing trauma, ob/gyn, overcoming sexual abuse, personal power, personal space, recovery, self help, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, trust issues, worry Posted in All Posts, Bethany's Blog |
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