"Her book explains confusing emotions in a clear and concise way that would normally take years of painful and slow therapeutic work to unravel. Her steps are like a brightly lit path out of darkness untangling confusing emotions while leading you quickly through to self discovery and healing."
"... savoring every bit of it as it reveals more and more of the feelings I've had for a long time...The questions at the end of the chapters help me to put into words the feelings I've never been able to share with anyone."
"This is an excellent book and workbook...Difficult concepts related to healing were clearly explained. The topics and questions are comprehensive and relevant...As someone who now works with others who have been abused I use this book to assist in their healing."
Having the responsibility to carry the secret of my incest family was much too heavy a burden for a child. Even into adulthood, I struggled to manage the rest of my responsibilities under the secret’s weight. By telling the secret, it was as though I handed back the burden to my parents—and the shame that went with it. ”