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Aug 8th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen When I was a child, I was very well-behaved. I listened to my teachers and earned good grades. I got along well with other kids and followed all the rules. I obeyed my parents and did helpful things around the house. I never got in trouble except for one thing: My parents [...]
Tags: abusive marriage, acceptance, attitude, belief system, boundaries, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, coping mechanisms, denial, dysfunctional family, emotional pain, emotional scars, empowerment, facade, false identity, family systems, family values, healing brokenness, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, hidden message, incest, inner struggle, low self esteem, masks, mental health, overcoming abuse, parenting, people pleasing, performance, positive thinking, secrets, sexual abuse, shame, support, survivor of abuse, validation, victim Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Jul 29th, 2010 |
By osa |
Category: All Posts, Diablog--Multi-Person Blog
By Christina Enevoldsen, Bethany Ruck & Penny Smith I live close to Beverly Hills, the plastic surgery Mecca, where the question is, “Are they real?” I’m also a few blocks from where the Academy Awards and many film premieres are held, where celebrities smile for the cameras and wave confidently to the fans, yet we [...]
Tags: belief system, Bethany Ruck, boudaries, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, comfort zone, control, coping mechanisms, dissociate, emotional scars, empowerment, facade, false identity, feeling alone, fulfilling life, healing sexual abuse, healing trauma, inner struggle, low self esteem, masks, mental health, overcoming sexual abuse, panic, Penny Smith, personal growth, personal power, recovery, role playing, self-worth, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, shame, survival mode, truth, validation, victim, violation, worry Posted in All Posts, Diablog--Multi-Person Blog |
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Jul 26th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen In the dark children’s tale “Hansel and Gretal”, a young brother and sister are abandoned in the woods by their father at the insistence of their step-mother. She convinces her husband that the whole family will perish unless they reduce the number of bellies to feed. Lost and starving, the children find [...]
Tags: abandonment, abuser, abusive relationship, acceptance, belief system, belonging, betrayal, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, control, dependence, discernment, dysfunctional family, emotional healing, emotional pain, empowerment, expert, facade, false promises, father child relationship, feeling alone, feeling used, Hansel and Gretal, healing brokenness, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, hero, individuality, insecurities, low self esteem, manipulation, mental health, mother daughter relationship, mother's love, neglect, overcoming abuse, overcoming sexual abuse, pain relief, parenting, people pleaser, performance, personal growth, personal power, potential, sexual abuse recovery, significance, submission, trust issues, validation, victim, withholding love Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Apr 5th, 2010 |
By Bethany Ruck |
Category: All Posts, Bethany's Blog
by Bethany Ruck I’m now being forced to look at my childhood for what it was, not the pretty picture I imagined it to be. For years I convinced myself that I had a good childhood, despite all the abuse I endured. Then I remembered that the good times were really just a cover for [...]
Tags: abuser, Bethany Ruck, child abuse, child molester, coping mechanism, denial, dysfunctional family, facade, family secrets, father, father daughter relationship, healing brokenness, incest, masks, pain, parenting, reality, sexual abuse, survivor, truth, victim Posted in All Posts, Bethany's Blog |
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Oct 22nd, 2009 |
By Bethany Ruck |
Category: All Posts, Our Stories
My brother’s first memory was the adventure of crawling underneath the fence in our backyard to play with the neighbor’s dogs. I envy him. My first memory was of getting raped. I remember laying on the kitchen table with my open diaper covered in blood — an image that constantly repeats itself in my head. [...]
Tags: abuse, Bethany Ruck, betrayal, brother, camping, child abuse, child molester, control, diaper, divorce, dysfunctional family, emotional scars, facade, family secrets, family system, father daughter relationship, fear, healing journey, healing trauma, incest, inner struggle, manipulation, neglect, parenting, rape, recovery, secrets, self help, sexual abuse, silence, survivor, victim, violation, worry Posted in All Posts, Our Stories |
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