by Bethany There I was, twenty-four years old and I’d never had a vaginal exam. I don’t like being touched in the first place, let alone being poked and prodded in my sacred areas. I had avoided the pap smear
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"... savoring every bit of it as it reveals more and more of the feelings I've had for a long time...The questions at the end of the chapters help me to put into words the feelings I've never been able to share with anyone."
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Now that I’ve found my voice, it doesn’t mean that I share every emotion or opinion I have. Being true to myself doesn’t mean that I insist on having things my way. It means that I hear my voice and validate what I have to say. From a healthy place of feeling heard (by me), I can decide what to share with others and what to keep to myself. ”