Posts Tagged ‘
child abuse ’
Sep 21st, 2010 |
By osa |
Category: All Posts, Diablog--Multi-Person Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen, Bethany Ruck, Patty Hite & Jennifer Stuck Christina: When I talk about my childhood sexual abuse, I see it as an opportunity to validate my inner child. As I reveal the horror of what happened to her, I’m inviting her out of the shadows of fear and shame. She’s accustomed to other’s [...]
Tags: acceptance, Bethany Ruck, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, denial, emotional healing, empowerment, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, Jennifer Stuck, overcoming sexual abuse, Patty Hite, personal power, recovery, significance, support, survivor of abuse, validation Posted in All Posts, Diablog--Multi-Person Blog |
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Sep 20th, 2010 |
By Guest Contributions |
Category: All Posts, Guest Blog
by Nikki Stone “I use to think that keeping up with my appearances mattered. However, I have seen what age does to the body and quiet frankly I can’t run fast enough to keep up with such appearances. So I have settled to frighten myself every morning when I get up to look in the [...]
Tags: acceptance, belief system, bipolar disorder, child abuse, coping mechanisms, emotional healing, empowerment, healing brokenness, healing from sexual abuse, healing journey, inner struggle, laughter is the best medicine, low self esteem, mental health, Nikki Stone, overcoming sexual abuse, significance, truth, victim Posted in All Posts, Guest Blog |
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Aug 19th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Articles
by Christina Enevoldsen I talk about my childhood sexual abuse very publicly now, but I didn’t start there. The first time I ever told anyone I’d been abused it didn’t go very well. For years, I’d repressed most of my childhood memories when suddenly, in my early twenties, I knew I’d been abused. The knowledge [...]
Tags: abandonment, abuser, acceptance, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, denial, disclosing abuse, dysfunctional family, family system, healing sexual abuse, incest, incest family, parenting, support system, survivor, telling the secret, truth, validation, victim Posted in All Posts, Articles |
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Aug 17th, 2010 |
By osa |
Category: All Posts, Truth Talks--10 Minute Audio
by Christina Enevoldsen & Darlene Ouimet Abuse misinforms us about our identity and our value. Recovery is the restoration of our true selves. Find out how we uncover the truth in this ten minute audio discussion by Christina Enevoldsen and Darlene Ouimet. “I became my own advocate and I believe that’s the only way we [...]
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Tags: belief system, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, coping mechanisms, Darlene Ouimet, dissociative identity disorder, dysfunctional family, emotional healing, false identity, healing brokenness, healing sexual abuse, low self esteem, mental health, multiple personalities, overcoming abuse, parenting, recovery process, self help, self-worth, sexual abuse, significance, truth, validation, verbal abuse Posted in All Posts, Truth Talks--10 Minute Audio |
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Aug 8th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen When I was a child, I was very well-behaved. I listened to my teachers and earned good grades. I got along well with other kids and followed all the rules. I obeyed my parents and did helpful things around the house. I never got in trouble except for one thing: My parents [...]
Tags: abusive marriage, acceptance, attitude, belief system, boundaries, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, coping mechanisms, denial, dysfunctional family, emotional pain, emotional scars, empowerment, facade, false identity, family systems, family values, healing brokenness, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, hidden message, incest, inner struggle, low self esteem, masks, mental health, overcoming abuse, parenting, people pleasing, performance, positive thinking, secrets, sexual abuse, shame, support, survivor of abuse, validation, victim Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Jul 29th, 2010 |
By osa |
Category: All Posts, Diablog--Multi-Person Blog
By Christina Enevoldsen, Bethany Ruck & Penny Smith I live close to Beverly Hills, the plastic surgery Mecca, where the question is, “Are they real?” I’m also a few blocks from where the Academy Awards and many film premieres are held, where celebrities smile for the cameras and wave confidently to the fans, yet we [...]
Tags: belief system, Bethany Ruck, boudaries, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, comfort zone, control, coping mechanisms, dissociate, emotional scars, empowerment, facade, false identity, feeling alone, fulfilling life, healing sexual abuse, healing trauma, inner struggle, low self esteem, masks, mental health, overcoming sexual abuse, panic, Penny Smith, personal growth, personal power, recovery, role playing, self-worth, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, shame, survival mode, truth, validation, victim, violation, worry Posted in All Posts, Diablog--Multi-Person Blog |
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Jul 27th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen When I was a kid, The Wizard of OZ aired on television once a year. I didn’t know any families who didn’t anticipate this event. My family never missed it. We’d eat dinner early, make popcorn and enthusiastically settle in. The Wizard of Oz is an enchanting story of a twelve-year-old Kansas [...]
Tags: abusers, acceptance, anger, belief system, boundaries, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, control, coping mechanisms, denial, dyfunctional family, emotional healing, emotional scars, empowerment, false identity, family system, fulfilling life, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, healthy relationships, incest, inner struggle, intimidation, low self esteem, mental health, overcoming sexual abuse, parenting, people pleaser, personal development, personal power, personal responsibility, recovery, self help, self-worth, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, survivor, truth, validation, victim, violation, Wizard of Oz Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Jul 26th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen In the dark children’s tale “Hansel and Gretal”, a young brother and sister are abandoned in the woods by their father at the insistence of their step-mother. She convinces her husband that the whole family will perish unless they reduce the number of bellies to feed. Lost and starving, the children find [...]
Tags: abandonment, abuser, abusive relationship, acceptance, belief system, belonging, betrayal, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, control, dependence, discernment, dysfunctional family, emotional healing, emotional pain, empowerment, expert, facade, false promises, father child relationship, feeling alone, feeling used, Hansel and Gretal, healing brokenness, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, hero, individuality, insecurities, low self esteem, manipulation, mental health, mother daughter relationship, mother's love, neglect, overcoming abuse, overcoming sexual abuse, pain relief, parenting, people pleaser, performance, personal growth, personal power, potential, sexual abuse recovery, significance, submission, trust issues, validation, victim, withholding love Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Jun 3rd, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen “Steve Austin, astronaut. A man barely alive. Gentlemen, we can rebuild him. We have the technology. We have the capability to build the world’s first bionic man. Steve Austin will be that man. Better than he was before. Better, stronger, faster.” Oscar Goldman in the opening narration to the “The Six Million [...]
Tags: child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, emotional healing, emotional pain, emotional scars, empowerment, healilng from trauma, healing from abuse, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, incest, inner struggle, mental health, near death experience, overcoming abuse, overcoming sexual abuse, pain relief, personal development, personal growth, personal power, restoration, self help, self image, self improvement, self-worth, sexual abuse recovery, significance, suffering, survivor of abuse, therapy, validation, victim, violation Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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May 9th, 2010 |
By Patty Hite |
Category: All Posts, Patty's Blog
by Patty Hite Windows and doors, set. Beep Beep, Beep Beep. Motion detectors, set. Beep Beep, Beep Beep. Alarms set. Beep Beep. Beep Beep. My husband had an alarm system put into our home and I have to say, it helps me feel safe. He is ill and getting weaker and his thoughts were for [...]
Tags: abuser, abusive relationship, anxiety, boundaries, child abuse, coping mechanisms, emotional healing, emotional scars, empowerment, fear, healing sexual abuse, healing trauma, hero, inner struggle, overcoming sexual abuse, Patty Hite, personal alarm, personal growth, personal power, personal safety, physical abuse, protection, rape, reporting abuse, self help, self improvement, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, significance, survivor of abuse, validation, worry Posted in All Posts, Patty's Blog |
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