"Her book explains confusing emotions in a clear and concise way that would normally take years of painful and slow therapeutic work to unravel. Her steps are like a brightly lit path out of darkness untangling confusing emotions while leading you quickly through to self discovery and healing."
"... savoring every bit of it as it reveals more and more of the feelings I've had for a long time...The questions at the end of the chapters help me to put into words the feelings I've never been able to share with anyone."
"This is an excellent book and workbook...Difficult concepts related to healing were clearly explained. The topics and questions are comprehensive and relevant...As someone who now works with others who have been abused I use this book to assist in their healing."
The message from abusers is that it’s not safe to tell; that’s the same message that survivors are given by others when we try to talk about our abuse: 'Talking about it will make you feel worse.' Or 'Why drag all of that up? It will just drag you down with it.' Talking about abuse didn’t make me feel worse; it helped me get better. Do you know what made me feel worse? Being told not to talk about it. ”