Posts Tagged ‘
abusive relationship ’
Apr 3rd, 2011 |
By Guest Contributions |
Category: All Posts, Guest Blog
by Jennifer Stuck It’s a natural human instinct to crave companionship. I will always need other people. It’s healthy to have people I can turn to when I’m having a hard time—friends I enjoy being around and having fun with. However, when the need for others outweighs my sense of self it becomes a problem. [...]
Tags: abusive relationship, childhood sexual abuse, codependent, dysfunctional relationships, Jennifer Stuck, low self esteem, shame Posted in All Posts, Guest Blog |
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Sep 2nd, 2010 |
By Patty Hite |
Category: All Posts, Patty's Blog
by Patty Hite My son used to sing a Bob Marley song to me all the time and the chorus was, “Is this love, is this love, is this love, is this love that I’m feeling?” I never gave it much thought until recently, but wondered why I never asked myself, “Is this love that [...]
Tags: abuser, abusive marriage, abusive relationship, dysfunctional family, false love, healing from abuse, healing journey, healthy relationships, love, low self esteem, marriage, overcoming sexual abuse, Patty Hite, self respect, self-esteem, self-love Posted in All Posts, Patty's Blog |
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Jul 26th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen In the dark children’s tale “Hansel and Gretal”, a young brother and sister are abandoned in the woods by their father at the insistence of their step-mother. She convinces her husband that the whole family will perish unless they reduce the number of bellies to feed. Lost and starving, the children find [...]
Tags: abandonment, abuser, abusive relationship, acceptance, belief system, belonging, betrayal, child abuse, Christina Enevoldsen, control, dependence, discernment, dysfunctional family, emotional healing, emotional pain, empowerment, expert, facade, false promises, father child relationship, feeling alone, feeling used, Hansel and Gretal, healing brokenness, healing journey, healing sexual abuse, hero, individuality, insecurities, low self esteem, manipulation, mental health, mother daughter relationship, mother's love, neglect, overcoming abuse, overcoming sexual abuse, pain relief, parenting, people pleaser, performance, personal growth, personal power, potential, sexual abuse recovery, significance, submission, trust issues, validation, victim, withholding love Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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Jul 25th, 2010 |
By Christina Enevoldsen |
Category: All Posts, Christina's Blog
by Christina Enevoldsen It was the first time in weeks since my husband and I had been on a date. Don held my hand and I rested my head on his chest while we waited in line for the planetarium show at Griffith Observatory. The young couple a few feet in front of us caught [...]
Tags: abuse, abusive marriage, abusive relationship, anger, boundaries, Christina Enevoldsen, competition, control, coping mechanisms, denial, discernment, domination, emotional pain, emotional scars, empowerment, equality, fear, healing brokenness, healing sexual abuse, healthy relationship, husband, intimidation, low self esteem, manipulation, mutual respect, overcoming abuser, overcoming sexual abuse, people pleaser, performance, personal power, personal safety, physical abuse, poor self esteem, power, recovery, self help, self-worth, sexual abuse recovery, shame, survival mode, survivor of abuse, teasing, trust issues, truth, validation, verbal abuse, victim, violation, vulnerable, wife Posted in All Posts, Christina's Blog |
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May 9th, 2010 |
By Patty Hite |
Category: All Posts, Patty's Blog
by Patty Hite Windows and doors, set. Beep Beep, Beep Beep. Motion detectors, set. Beep Beep, Beep Beep. Alarms set. Beep Beep. Beep Beep. My husband had an alarm system put into our home and I have to say, it helps me feel safe. He is ill and getting weaker and his thoughts were for [...]
Tags: abuser, abusive relationship, anxiety, boundaries, child abuse, coping mechanisms, emotional healing, emotional scars, empowerment, fear, healing sexual abuse, healing trauma, hero, inner struggle, overcoming sexual abuse, Patty Hite, personal alarm, personal growth, personal power, personal safety, physical abuse, protection, rape, reporting abuse, self help, self improvement, sexual abuse, sexual abuse recovery, significance, survivor of abuse, validation, worry Posted in All Posts, Patty's Blog |
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